Surprise | Filed under General
I am not really sure why I am here. Just felt like dropping in and catching up with what has been going on with my friend. I was really surprised and baffled at what all has been going on and I didn’t have a clue. Not a single call or email was dropped my way to tell me about the medical problems and hospitalization. I was upset to say the least. Victoria could have died and I’d never have known.
The long hours I’ve been working, the family problems I’ve been having, the fact that I’m pretty much never online, and my own depression because of the 1 year anniversary of my angel day approaching. Communication has been beyond poor between myself and many others. Most days I only talk with my husband and my kids. I have a few select that have even bothered to keep in touch with me. But communication has to be two way. I can’t expect someone to put forth the effort if I don’t put forth the effort myself.
So Victoria I’m really sorry I haven’t been more communicative. It has just always been upsetting when I have made efforts and they’ve gone unanswered, but I have to remember that it takes alot of energy out of you to even turn your computer on most days. Just please drop me a line sometimes just so I know you are still alive and kicking. Because with my life as it is, times like these when I can read your blog are practically miracles. I don’t want life passing by in wonderment of how you are doing. Even if you can’t contact me yourself, please have one of your now closer friends contact me so that I know something.
Melissa
December 3rd, 2006 at 1:10 pm
Someone please tell me how Miss Vickie is! I’m praying for her.
December 3rd, 2006 at 6:06 pm
I’m hanging by my nails ! How is she? Will we ever hear from her again?
December 3rd, 2006 at 10:36 pm
Vickie is ok as of the last time I spoke to her sometime today.
She is not 100% and wont know tha cause until she sees doctors and has a prceedure done next week.
I know I will have her in my thoughts and wish her a speedy return.
December 3rd, 2006 at 11:44 pm
okay, my sweet friend, Vickie, I will be waiting to hear how things are going later this week. Keep someone posted so I will know. YOu know you are in my thoughts everyday. I am so very lucky to have you for my friend!
Great bigs hugs for you! Don’t be too scared, I will be there with you in spirit, just in case you need me.
December 4th, 2006 at 12:16 am
Ms. Vickie is in my thoughts and prayers as well. Hang in there, friend. Praying for you, and those close to you. Keep the faith!! And, thanks so much to Walker for letting us know. Hope the procedure brings good news…. ((HUGS)):thumbsup:
December 4th, 2006 at 7:34 am
Vickie, you are in so many people’s thoughts and prayers, that I have faith you will be ok.
Thinking of you!
*HUGS*
December 4th, 2006 at 9:19 pm
I’ll be praying for you, Vickie. May your fear be lifted, and may those around you give you strength.
December 5th, 2006 at 9:11 am
Vickie, you know we’ll all be thinking about you. I love you and am so grateful that I have come to know you. And um…(cough cough) next time, we don’t leave Karen in charge of procedure dates…lol.
December 5th, 2006 at 1:31 pm
Vickie, just dropped by via Walker, and want to add my well wishes and prayers. ((((HUGS))))S
December 5th, 2006 at 2:42 pm
Dear Vickie,
You are in my thoughts as your appointment approaches. Sometimes the fear and anxiety around such a proceedure is worse that the actual event. Know that I am thinking of you. Love and Hugs my friend.
December 5th, 2006 at 3:58 pm
Well, Miss GOOD one… I did have the right date… it was someone else who made me panic!
Love you, girl friend!
December 5th, 2006 at 5:40 pm
all the best to you miss vickie. we will be here when you need us and saying prayers for you. you are one of the strongest persons that i know. talk to you soon.
December 5th, 2006 at 5:54 pm
i am sending my best wishes and prayers for you too. take care and a cyber hug! poet:wave:
December 6th, 2006 at 12:13 am
My best of wishes for you Vickie - you are a dear soul to me and I hope everything is ok with you. You are in my prayers sugar. Big hugssssssss
December 6th, 2006 at 2:48 am
My prayers !!!
December 6th, 2006 at 9:29 am
Thinking of you today, kiddo.
December 6th, 2006 at 4:56 pm
I love you and I miss you, Vickie. I, too, am sorry that I haven’t been around (also going through changes)….but know that you have always been, still are, in my thoughts and prayers. Please, anyone here too, keep me posted.
December 6th, 2006 at 9:12 pm
*Big sigh of relief*
I hear via monica that all went well today. Good news. Keep taking one day at a time. Love you.
December 6th, 2006 at 11:24 pm
Phoenix’s mom here……..sending a prayer on wings of love to you and yours to see ya through.:relieved:
December 7th, 2006 at 12:23 am
Thanks to your friends, I heard you are doing well.
Well, except for being ‘high’ - hey - that’s okay too!
Keep the faith, Vickie; you’re a strong lady.
December 7th, 2006 at 8:29 am
Vickie, I am so glad you are ok, cuz we really need you around here.
December 7th, 2006 at 8:08 pm
hello, vickie. just dropping by to say i am glad everything turned out well during the procedure. You are a very brave person and I think you are way cool as a friend!! Love ya!
December 8th, 2006 at 8:23 am
Hi Vickie, thinking about you hon! Hope you’re ok!! Hugs!
December 8th, 2006 at 2:39 pm
Yeah. Good news. I am glad that things turned out okay. Hang in there, Vickie. I am thinking of you.