How to win | Filed under General
Stop for just a second because times is very precious, who knows you ? I have several things to share and ponder with you if you will just pull up that chair and spend a little time with me. You know me so it will take more than a second so make sure you get comfortable and don’t forget to grab that favorite drink and get comfortable and settle in.
No one knows you better than you know yourself. You know your strengths, weaknesses, needs, desires, dislikes, emotions, and physical abilities better than anyone else. You can map out your life better than any therapist, psychic, or guidance counselor. Those people may all be of assistance, but you are the best life coach for you.
To coach yourself in winning at life, be willing to put in the practice. Get involved in your life right now. Be engaged at work and play, even if you want to make changes. Practice being passionate about the mundane things in life, as well as the thrills, and you’ll soon find yourself enthusiastic about everything. Map out a game plan for your life by taking the time to think about and realize what you really want. Meditate to clear you mind and open your heart. Write down goals, dreams, revelations that come to you. You may find you that along the way your needs and/or desires may change, but that’s part of getting to know you. Focus on your immediate goals and make plans for what you need to do now that will get you where you want to be. Ask the hard questions and be honest with yourself. Recognize what you want to change about yourself to be a better person and do the work required whether it is exercising regularly, developing a spiritual practice, taking a class for career advancement, or being kinder to people.
Cheer yourself on. Let go of harsh criticisms and give yourself the praise and encouragement you desire and need to be a winner. Repeat affirmations daily if they are helpful, pat yourself on the back for a job well done, and console yourself when you’re down. Never give up on yourself. When things look bleak, be your own best cheerleader and try to remain optimistic. Look at challenge as an adventure, take risks, and welcome change. Embrace those that come into your life to help you as your team mates and support them as well. Play hard at the game of life and enjoy it and you’ll come out a winner.
Also don’t forget, send me the person you are nominating to receive the Circle of Love award. To refresh your memory go here and no I can not be nominated nor receive the award for I am the founder of the award but I do appreciate the many nice comments that were left the first time I mentioned this. So please get busy for the 15th is the deadline. Come now join me in making Life Simply Good .
April 12th, 2005 at 12:08 pm
I needed to hear something like that, for far too many reasons, right now. It’s one thing for people who know me to tell me this, it’s another entirely to “hear” it from someone else…. just know you made a huge difference in my day today.
April 12th, 2005 at 2:02 pm
You remind of the son” Hey big spender, spend a little time with me”
Karen, Leslie,Wanda, and Ann
April 12th, 2005 at 3:21 pm
Those are great words and ideas. We’re our own worst critic so we need to stop that and be our best support!
Have a great day my dear friend! *HUGS*
April 12th, 2005 at 3:46 pm
So should we email our suggestions or just post them here?
There are so many people who would be deserving of this award. Of course the first person who comes to mind would be Ellen, who’s a bottomless well of love and generosity. Then there’s Leslie, who’s loving and forgiving spirit makes her someone special in anyone’s book. When thinking of love and kindness one can’t help but think of Brenda, who does so much for the people in her life. Mary Lou is always in the forfront of my mind. Her lovely cards and letters have gotten me through many a blue day. Of course I couldn’t talk about friends without mentioning the man who’s been my best friend for over 5 years, and we’ve never even met face to face. My precious David. There are just so many. Every single person who’s blog is on my blogroll would be a deserving candidate!
I guess if I could nominate only one of these wonderfully special people it would have to be…
April 12th, 2005 at 7:05 pm
Thank you! I needed to read this tonight and I love it!
April 12th, 2005 at 8:28 pm
Beautiful post. You never fail to inspire!
April 12th, 2005 at 10:04 pm
I’m so glad I dropped by tonight, many things to think about. I don’t like being bitter, but, when trying to deal with the people who can make a difference (in my particular quest) so I need to change that. Thanks for the push to change myself and the way I think first.
April 12th, 2005 at 10:45 pm
I needed something uplifting this evening, the past two days have been killer. Thanks Victoria for always providing a peaceful oasis here. The Dalai Lama has nothing on you.
April 12th, 2005 at 11:15 pm
You know who I think so, instead i’ll just say, that if everyone listened to their heart a little more often, found the silence within, and stayed centred, that the inspirational words you shared would remain in our hearts a lot longer. But too often life intrudes into our quietude. ((((hugs))))
April 13th, 2005 at 12:09 am
Honestly that is very hard to do, but I luv the way you put it Vickie.
April 13th, 2005 at 7:20 am
Ithink you must have been thinking about me as you put it very well in what we need to do but it is very hard to do this.Very much truth to it Ilove you
April 13th, 2005 at 9:56 am
If doing were only as easy as reading!
Hope you are well!
-G
April 13th, 2005 at 1:55 pm
Hi Vickie.. Your words just give me tingles. Life gives us challenges.. but you are right.. it is simply beautiful !! *HUGS*
April 13th, 2005 at 4:17 pm
Perfectly put - as usual.
April 13th, 2005 at 10:51 pm
Hi schweetheart!! long time since I was last here!! sorry =( bringing love and kissest tho!! *smooch*~!!!!
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April 14th, 2005 at 10:38 am
Hey sweet girl - I hope you got my votes ’cause my email sender is being lazy!
April 14th, 2005 at 10:51 pm
You don’t miss much do you?
Well done.
TGIF.
April 14th, 2005 at 10:54 pm
I must be an idiot, but I can’t locate your email address on your page, so I’ll make my nomination here.
I have rarely met an individual more giving and compassionate than Catherine of “Flirt in a Skirt.” She uses her blog to enfold all of her readers in a circle of love. I think she would be a deserving recipient of your award.
God bless.
April 15th, 2005 at 6:39 am
Happy Friday Ms. Vickie. Hope this will be a good day for you.
April 15th, 2005 at 6:43 am
It is Friday, the sun is shining, my taxes are done, life is simply good! Happy Friday to you
April 15th, 2005 at 9:18 pm
TGIF Vickie! You’re most definitely a winner.
April 16th, 2005 at 9:41 am
Beautifully put…as usual. Hey Vicky, come on over to my site this weekend if you get a second. I’ll be thinking of you on Sunday. Lottsa love, Deni
April 16th, 2005 at 10:50 pm
Are you busy tallying the votes, Victoria? I hope you are enjoying a beautiful weekend.
April 17th, 2005 at 3:28 pm
Wow! You rock! What a great post and something I needed to hear today.
On another note…my new blog design from Cherry is almost done, thanks to you! When done, you will get a shout out on the site!
April 17th, 2005 at 3:53 pm
Hi Vickie,
Just passing by and wishing you a Happy Sunday. Life is Good !! *HUGS*