Christmas has come and gone again, this year I was able to do what I wanted, I saw that my mother had a very good Christmas and did not spend it alone. My sister was invited to share Christmas with us and declined she then in turn invited us to her house for Christmas Eve for a family gathering to only call back and indicate problems had come up between her and her husband so there would be no family gathering at her home. I wonder what came up at her house, if anything, you see she is very selfish and most likely she had something come along she wanted to do. She has yet to contact mom to even wish her a Merry Christmas. So you can see why it was all so important for me to make certain that mom had a nice Christmas and was not alone.
On the other hand someone spoke to Santa and told him I had been naughty and he did not visit me at all but allowed me the joy of giving to others which I must say is my greatest gift. You my friends give me gifts everyday with your friendship and kind words. Thank you for you mean more to me than my words can say. Life is Simply Good.
“To Believe…”
To believe is to know that every day
is a new beginning.
It is to trust that miracles happen,
and dreams really do come true.
To believe is to see angels dancing among the clouds,
To know the wonder of a stardust sky
and the wisdom of the man in the moon.
To believe is to know the value of a nurturing heart,
The innocence of a child’s eyes
and the beauty of an aging hand,
for it is through their teachings we learn to love.
To believe is to find the strength
and courage that lies within us.
When it is time to pick up the pieces and begin again.
To believe is to know we are not alone,
That life is a gift and this is our time to cherish it.
To believe is to know that wonderful surprises
are just waiting to happen,
And all our hopes and dreams are within reach.
If only we believe.
I believe and that is why Life is Simply Good at Always Victoria and it is going to get better!


December 26th, 2004 at 5:57 pm
Your great words on your blog is like gifts given to us everyday, which makes me feel good!
Thanks Sweet N Sassy!
I hope you had a great Christmas!
December 26th, 2004 at 7:25 pm
So glad you had a nice holiday with your mom!
I have inlaws like that, but I was good, and set aside my pride and sent pictures to my MIL who is staying with a sister inlaw that hates me. Didn’t want to do it, but I did!
Hope you have a wonderful New Year!
December 26th, 2004 at 7:49 pm
Hey! I’m glad that you and your mom had a Merry Christmas. This post was lovely, as always…
December 26th, 2004 at 11:34 pm
Sorry about relations with your sis, but I’m happy you had a great time woth your mom.
December 26th, 2004 at 11:58 pm
Beautiful words…thoughtful words! ~BIG HUGS~ back at you Dear Sweet-One! Thanks for being! Thanks for sharing!
December 27th, 2004 at 12:23 am
Merry Christmas to you Victoria. I hope your New Year is full of joy and peace.
December 27th, 2004 at 2:14 am
What is it about this holiday that brings into sharp focus even the slightest strain within familial relationships?
Ah, but if Santa says you’ve been naughty then I’m here to proclaim you to be VERY nice in all the ways that truly count.
-G
December 27th, 2004 at 2:27 am
Your sister sounds like a putz. How selfish and inconsiderate can she be! I totally admire YOUR attitude, which I wish I could emulate. I would feel bitter and vengeful. You, on the the other hand, are a good and saintly person. Bravo!
December 27th, 2004 at 3:24 am
I always get more joy out of giving than receiving. I’m a very hard person to shop for and I always feel like I have to make a big deal out of whatever someone gives me. Which leads to my getting stressed out. Where as when I give a gift I put a lot of time and energy into getting the best (not most expensive) gift I can to suit the person receiving the gift.
I’m glad you and your Mom had a nice day. I wish a couple of my children could have been as thoughtful as you!!
December 27th, 2004 at 12:15 pm
What a great daughter you are to have such concern for your mother.
December 27th, 2004 at 12:47 pm
My favorite line in that poem is
…. and the beauty of an aging hand
Your sister doesn’t know what she’s missing.
December 27th, 2004 at 5:10 pm
I will personally set ole Santa straight the very next time I see him. Happy Holdays Miz Vicki!!
December 27th, 2004 at 6:09 pm
Congrqatulations on being a finalist in the BoB awards!!!